How do I introduce my girlfriend or boyfriend to my kink?

Some ideas on how to tell your significant other about your unusual interests:

Even people with common sexual kinks may fear sharing when they don't know how their lover will respond. Newcomers to the online erotic hypnosis community often ask how they can introduce their boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse to their kink without making it sound too weird. And the community has offered some suggestions.

The most common recommendation is to share a book, a movie or a TV show that inspires your fantasies with this particular kink. Well written stories have a special ability to engage our imaginations and our emotions. Yet because the action happens to someone else (usually an imaginary character) the story can also provide a distance that protects us from taking the action personally.

The erotic hypnosis community has an advantage here. Mind control is one of the most prevalent themes in popular fiction. Hundreds of books, movies and TV programs showed us pretty girls getting hypnotized including Batman, Gilligan's Island, Get Smart, Lost in Space, Hart to Hart, Charlies Angels, Superfriends, Scooby Doo and Underdog. Mind control was also prevalent in comic books like The Avengers, Daredevil, Superman, and Wonder Woman.

Our community has often shared conversations about how watching these shows as kids led to our adult interest in erotic hypnosis. And I know of at least one person who, after following this discussion, went to his girlfriend and opened a conversation with "Honey, I found this discussion forum where people were talking about how watching Saturday morning cartoons led to their hypnosis fetish". He reported that she broke out laughing and that led to a relaxed and enjoyable conversation. It even helped her open up and share her sexual interests with him.

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June Dressing: Black-and-White Glamour Three

The third of these, and last for this month:



The black pin-stripe twofer is by Worthington, a thrift shop find in January 2012; the White skirt is by New York & Co., bought at Forman Mills in June 2013; the shoes are Karen Ornament white peep-toe pumps from Payless in March 2015. Other accessories are a white bow and pearls; still bare-legged.



Two more lovely portraits:

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June Dressing: Black-and-White Glamour Two

The second in the series of old-time glamour look sets:



The black-and-white animal print dress is from Fashion Bug in May 2010; the shoes are Isaac Mizrahi black mary-janes from Target in November 2007 (the first shoes I bought on my return to dressing). Other accessories are a white bow, black-and-white jewelry, and black belt; once again, I am bare-legged.



Once again, the portraits look great; I'll have to try some of this technique on color portraits in the future.

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June Dressing: Black-and-White Glamour One

For the next several months, all my outfits will be black-and-white. Furthermore, I will do the photos in monochrome, with editing to try to emulate the glamour photography of the 1940s and '50s. Here's the first outfit:



The white man-tailored blouse is from Kmart's Basic Editions line in November 2014; the black faux leather skirt is from Target's Xhilaration line in October 2013; the shoes are American Eagle "Javelin Jetson" black oxfords from Payless in December 2013. Other accessories are a white bow, and black-and-white jewelry. Temperatures and humidity are high, so I'm bare-legged.



I'm particularly pleased with how the portraits turned out.

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Hypnotized and Horny

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Feminization Thoughts

An excerpt from a book on the subject (I'll be returning to this in coming weeks):

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Poll Results: Dani's Best Look--Week 16

Here's the winner from the current survey:

And here are the entries for the new survey:

The silver/white tiger-stripe miniskirt is from Wal-Mart's No Boundaries line in May 2014; the sparkly sweater is from Target's Mossimo line in September 2012; the shoes are Moda Spana pewter spike heel pumps, a thrift shop find in November 2012. Other accessories are a shiny bow, silver and chunky jewelry, and white hose.

The blue striped pencil skirt is by Olivia & Martin, bought at K&G in September 2015; the white blouse with silver trim is by New Look, bought at Foreman Mills in September 2014; the shoes are Double Comfort "Madeline" spectator t-strap pumps, from Payless in January 2016. Other accessories are a white bow, scarf, skinny belt, silver jewelry, and natural hose.

The green dress with henley collar is by Route 66, from Kmart in August 2009; the shoes are Mossimo "Viveca Blingy" green suede pumps, from Target in February 2013. Other accessories are a red bow, scarf, red jewelry, red belt, and natural hose.
















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Can A Real Man Become A Real Woman Using Hypnosis?

Another look at what may only be a fantasy idea of what hypnosis can accomplish:

So why would anyone want to participate in a feminization hypnosis session. Some men really want to know what it would feel like to be a woman. These men take what for most men would be nothing more than a curious thought from time to time or an occasional full blown fantasy and try to actually make it real.

Some men just want to connect with their feminine side and see this kind of hypnotic process as a viable way to do that. The obvious group of men who would use feminization hypnosis a lot would be those who are transsexuals and transvestites.

To complete the transformation beyond merely dressing as a woman, hypnosis can allow them, to actually become a woman using the power of the imagination and suggestion used by the hypnotist.

While a lot of men may want to experience feminization hypnosis every once in a while and don't really have any desire to live as a woman there are a number of men who would like to live their life as a woman on all levels. For these men hypnosis can provide a bridge to the mental and emotional states of a woman that they are seeking to experience every day of their life.

This type of hypnosis is really an ongoing psychological and emotional conditioning course where a great deal of time is spent in hypnosis with a view to change the male at a very deep identity level. This re-programming would need to be undertaken with the help of a trained professional hypnotherapist and supplemented with self hypnosis and take home audio sessions.

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Poll Results Delayed

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Cock-Tease Confidential

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School for Cross-Dressers

Here's a report on a very special "academy":

On a brisk fall afternoon, Pat shows up at the Manhattan apartment dressed like your typical soccer dad. He's wearing a baseball cap, sweatshirt, jeans and sneakers. He's greeted at the door with a kiss on the cheek by the gracefully-attired Veronica Vera.

In a few hours, after Vera and her team have asked Pat a few questions about his female persona and provided him some practical lessons in social graces and female aesthetics, he'll walk back out as "Bianca"– a sassy, 30-something-looking strawberry blonde.

"That's the perfect cue for my line, 'For every woman who burned her bra, there's a man burning to wear one,' " says Vera, who goes by the name Miss Vera.

About 60 percent of the people who come to Miss Vera's academy describe themselves as straight married men.

In fact, Pat came to Miss Vera's Finishing School with the support of his wife of 15 years. She asked that we refer to her by her middle name, Leigh — because she too is concerned about potential scorn. Leigh says she sees how becoming Bianca lifts the weight of the world off her husband's shoulders.

"It's definitely a stress release for him," she says. "It definitely helps him have more balance in his life. And all of that is good. It's good for me as his wife. It's good for my children."

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Never Alone

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On Your Knees--June

A slightly different idea for this month:

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How Does Feminization Hypnosis Work?

I don't believe the process described here really works, but it makes for a great fantasy...

Feminization hypnosis conditions the deeper part of the mind, which is the subconscious. Slowly, but surely, it programs the subconscious so that you will think, act, and look like a woman. The whole process can be so powerful that it simply doesn’t stop in conquering the mind. In fact, it merely starts there. Because once feminization hypnosis has fully trained the mind, everything else follows.

The mind will then work to instruct all other body processes and hormones to behave in the same manner as a woman’s. In effect, you would feel more womanly, the way you walk would be different, and your voice would sound more feminine.

Feminization hypnosis works through the power of suggestion. By listening to the therapist’s hypnotic voice, seeds of femininity are encouraged inside you. All physical changes it produces are more or less permanent, although you must still work to maintain them. But once they become second nature to you, everything else happens quite naturally.

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