Monday, December 18, 2017

Saturday, December 16, 2017

Friday, December 15, 2017

Hypnodommes and the Aural World of Erotic Hypnosis

The last piece I've found on erotic hypnosis. (If you are aware of others, send me a link.)

"A domme has to be active," an erotic hypnosis client who prefers to remain anonymous told me. "When you're conditioned, you will crave her words. The direct contact with your Goddess will amplify your feelings, and you will fall deeper under her spell and feel more pleasure. To me, a domme has to be caring and honest. I wouldn't engage in a relationship with just anybody. Trust is the key word here. You can never fully let go if you don't trust your Goddess."

That's the thing about hypnosis. It's impossible to force anyone to do something against their will. The standard line is "all hypnosis is self-hypnosis." If you listen to, say, "Sissy Cock Slave," you won't become a sissy cock slave unless that's what you want. Terms like "force" and "mind-control" are just buzzwords to elevate the kink. You don't go see a dominatrix for mutual conversation.

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Thursday, December 14, 2017

Dani's Hypnotic Self-Image

Some time back, in an e-mail, Mistress Lola gave me an interesting hypnotic suggestion:

Just follow my words
and let them mold you
guide you
Let them become your truth
Because from now on
When you see yourself
dressed as a woman
and acting like a woman
You will realise
how very beautiful
and pretty
and gorgeous you are.
You will see yourself
in your photos
and in the mirror
as the beautiful girl of 20 years old
And this will make you feel
so happy
so lovely
so nice
knowing that you are
such a beautiful girl

The result of this suggestion has been interesting. Consciously, I still see my photos as being my reality; subconsciously, I am happier with them than in the past, because I see the way I could have looked in these outfits some 40 years ago. This all led me to an idea...let others see me as I envision myself. Here's the first of a set of morphs showing that vision:

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Wednesday, December 13, 2017

On Your Knees for December

My monthly instructions for Sissy Gwen:

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Tuesday, December 12, 2017

Poll Results Delayed

Voting is slow so I'm extending the poll for a week.

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Friday, December 8, 2017

Why Do I Cross-Dress?

The answers given by this cross-dresser are very similar to my own:

First of all I do not see myself as a woman trapped in a man’s body. I do not want to be a woman all the time as I like my male side just as much. I am not gay (I am totally heterosexual). I also do not cross-dress for sexual pleaser. In simple words I enjoy it just like chocolate or baseball. Some people exercise or run to relax or relieve stress I become Susan. Susan is my way to get away from my normal life and everything in it for a while, kind of like a mini vacation. How would you like to be able to take a vacation anytime you want? For me I can even if only for a few hours. My time as Susan is just that, my male side and everything that goes with him is put aside and Susan is there. It doesn’t matter what I do as Susan it is just being her for a while. It can be as simple as doing my nails or makeup or even cleaning the house I am still getting away from the normal daily grind and I find it totally relaxing. Like anything you do it will grow with you and expand. Take baseball, the first time you watched a game you were just learning but over time you learn more and more. You learn the teams and players, you watch more and even start going to games. Cross-dressing is the same for me, at first it was just makeup and then came clothing and shoes and then I wanted to go out as Susan. Runners start of running a mile and then work up to 2 mile and then more always pushing what they can do and so do cross-dressers.

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Wednesday, December 6, 2017

Dani's Birthday

As long-time readers know, it was this week ten years ago that I bought and wore a full feminine outfit for the first time in nearly 30 years. Since then I have celebrated this as "Dani's birthday," with the posting of a slideshow of the best photos from the past year:

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Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Bubbles Speaks

[Mistress Lola asked my bimbo persona to say a few words.]

Hi! I'm Bubbles!

Thanks to Mistress Lola, I am the big-boobed bimbo, like, other side of Sissy Dani. I like wearing clothes that show off my humongous knockers, that cling to my every curve. And I guess I'm not very smart.

But it's fun not to have to worry about big's, like, so much easier just to care about being and looking beautiful and sexy. I'm just silly and flirty and girly and if somebody asks me a hard question, I just smile and giggle and shake my head.

Mistress Lola sasy she's going to take me shopping soon, to get me just the kind of sexy clothes I should always wear. I can't is, like, one of my fave things to do, because clothes and fashion and makeup are things I like!

I'm so happy Mistress Lola let me come out and play.

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Monday, December 4, 2017

Slideshow: Fall 2017

Here's my quarterly slideshow of the best of the past three months:

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Sunday, December 3, 2017

November Dressing 4: Jumpsuit

Not a dress or a skirt, but still very femme:

No digital magic in that last shot; those boobs are all mine.

The navy jumpsuit is by Spense Woman, bought at Ross in June 2016; the shoes are Dollhouse "Margaretta" black pumps with metal heels, from Shoe Dept. in January 2010. Other accessories are a white bow, scarf, silver jewelry, and a white belt.

And two more portraits:

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Saturday, December 2, 2017

November Dressing 3: Sweater Dress and Boots

One of my favorite combinations:

The blue cowlneck sweater dress is from Target's Mossimo line in January 2010; the boots are Jaclyn Smith "Tisdale" boots from Kmart in November 2014. Other accessories are a blue bow, silver jewelry, and a black belt.

And some nice portraits:

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Friday, December 1, 2017


An erotic hypnotist explains how she got into it:

It wasn’t until I met a dominatrix, really, and she was the one who taught me a lot more about hypnosis, inductions and how to use it in an erotic sense; I also knew a stage hypnotist who would do shows at colleges and different kinds of parties and events. I’ve always been really fascinated by the different uses of hypnosis – whether it be therapy, entertainment, stage hypnosis or sex – so, after being exposed to all these different facets, I slowly started doing more and more of my own research and working with other professional hypnotists.

For example, I connected with a hypnotist who was in the BDSM scene – he did it professionally – he would do private sessions with individuals who wanted to experience different things in trance. It would range from people who wanted to explore old dreams, past life memories, stuff like that…to people who wanted to feel like they were tied to the back of a hump-back whale – something so over the top you can only experience it through hypnosis.

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Wednesday, November 29, 2017

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

Poll Results: Dani's Best Look, Round 2--Week 4

After a voting extension, the last entry scored a solid 2.

This week's entry:

The black-and-white t-bar dress is from Fashion Bug, bought in January 2011; the shoes are Double Comfort "Madeline" spectator t-strap pumps, bought at Payless in January 2016. Other accessories are a white bow, red jewelry, and natural hose.

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Monday, November 27, 2017

Inspired by Lola: Playtime for Dolly

Mistress reminds me to tell you all that I am a good little hypnotized sissy!

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Saturday, November 25, 2017

Friday, November 24, 2017

Why Do Men Cross-Dress?

Some interesting answers are found here:

What is my sexual preference?
All I can say is that I love women, period. I’ve always admired, been attracted to, and even jealous of beautiful women. The thought of being with a male in any romantic capacity is repulsive to me. As a tgirl, I guess I’m kind of a lipstick lesbian. As a man, I’m just another straight guy.

Do I find dressing (in women’s clothes) sexual?
It used to be very sexually arousing to wear women’s clothing. Over the years, the arousal (tied to dressing) has faded away. It has become more comfortable and natural feeling to dress up like and express a female presentation. It reduces my stress, makes life more enjoyable, and in a nutshell, simply makes me feel more alive, period.

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Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Poll Results Delayed

Voting on the current survey has been very light...I'm extending it another week.

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Monday, November 20, 2017

Saturday, November 18, 2017

Friday, November 17, 2017

"It's Absurd...

...that a man in a dress warrants discussion - but I'm stared at every time I go out" is the headline on this essay by a New Zealand university lecturer.

I’ve wanted to dress this way for as long as I remember. But it took over forty years to pluck up the courage and dress openly in women’s clothes. The first day I did is one I’ll never forget and will never be allowed to forget.

It was on the 27 July 2015 that forces stirred inside of me and swept me off of my nylon sheathed feet, out of my front door, and dumped me into the middle of the campus, a point from which there was no return. Neither students nor colleagues were forewarned. To them and to strangers - many now will have read about me in the national press here in New Zealand, heard me talk on national radio and, probably goggle-eyed, seen pictures of me in the celebrity gossip magazine Woman’s Day - I will forever be the lecturer who dresses in women’s clothes. Good.

Her entire essay is worth reading.

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Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Who is this Mistress Lola anyway?

Hello lovely sissies and others that follow Dani's blog. I am Lola Venus, a.k.a Mistress Lola, and Dani has very kindly allowed me to write something for her little corner of the internet. And by allowed me, I mean 'been ordered to let me' (Joking. Or am I?).

I can see that our little hypno shenanigans have been gaining a bit of interest, so I thought this might a good time to let you all know a bit more about yourself. As you may have guessed, I am what is often referred to as 'hypnodomme', though personally I prefer just being called a hypnotist. I've been interested in hypnosis since I was a girl watching cartoons, in particular the Scooby Doo episode 'Bedlam at the Big Top', but I happily soaked up any cartoon that featured a young maiden (or even a male) becoming entranced, brainwashed or otherwise mind controlled. I'd often play games with my friends based around them being hypnotised - they soon got sick of that!

I'm sure it will surprise Dani to learn that I haven't always wanted to be the one swinging the watch. Actually, during my university years, I wanted to be the subject! After realising that a hypnosis fetish was actually a thing back in my late teens, I soon found out about the many erotic hypnosis websites out there, most of them based around buying recordings of a hypnodomme telling you to surrender to her in a sexy voice. A lot of these had chat rooms, which I started frequenting, hoping that a hypnotist would be able to put me under her spell. I became a slave to various people before becoming a maid to a wonderful woman called Mistress Melsa, and offered myself to any woman who would want me as a hypnotised pet

Sadly, aside from 1 or 2 sessions, I utterly failed to go into trance. Mostly because I couldn't keep concentrating on the session long enough to go under. I'd constantly be flipping tabs or letting my mind focus on other things, and wouldn't keep up with the many, many words the hypnotist sent me. Every so often I go undercover and try to be entranced, but the sheer length of their inductions would just bore me (ironically though, they wouldn't send me to sleep).

So clearly something had to be done for me to have my fun. That's when I realised I was better off being the one swinging the watch. So I put caps on my nickname and started trying to put people under myself. I admit, at first I wasn't very good at it. I was trying to imitate the various people who'd tried to put me under during the years, and though my subjects assured me they felt something, I knew it was just a placebo. That's when I hit on my own patented trance technique, which you have seen in Dani's trance-cripts.

I think that's long enough for a first post. Please let me know if you'd like to hear more from me, and do let me know what you'd like me to talk about. I'm happy to take on any subject...and any topic, too ;)

Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Sunday, November 12, 2017

On Your Knees

This month's instructions for Sissy Gwen:

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Saturday, November 11, 2017

Shopping with Bubbles

[Mistress Lola requested...or perhaps "ordered" is the word...a story about my Bubbles persona....]

Dani was anxious...but also eager and aroused. His on-line Mistress, Lola Venus, was making her first in-person visit to him in the States. He had no idea what she had planned...other than to hypnotize him and play with him as her toy...but this time without the physical and psychological distance of the computer.

He sat in his living room, awaiting her arrival. Outwardly, he appeared completely male...but beneath his t-shirt and jeans, he wore a lacy pink camisole and matching panties. He hoped Mistress Lola would approve. The doorbell rang and he went to answer it.

There she stood, stunning in a black off-the-shoulder, figure-hugging dress. Her auburn hair fell in soft waves to her shoulders. Her hypnotic eyes glowed. She smiled, "Hello, my Sissified Sweetheart." Dani felt his sissy-cock twitch in his panties...that was a trigger that made him feel a surge of feminine arousal. "Why don't we sit and talk for a bit, before we get started on what I know you're waiting for?"

"Of course, Mistress," Dani said, leading the way to the couch. "She's so beautiful," he thought. "I feel like I'm drifting into trance just by her presence."

Mistress Lola noticed the tell-tale signs. "Oh, no, none of that, Dani. You're such a trance-slut! No hypnosis until I'm ready!" She settled into the couch and crossed her long legs. "Let me tell you what I'm thinking...I'm thinking it's time Dani lived somewhere outside the four walls of this house!"

He gasped. "You mean, go outside dressed in girls' clothes?"

"A bit more than that, sweetie," she replied, smiling. "Now, be a Good Girl, and say the word...say it over and over again...."

Dani took a deep breath and began:


As he repeated it, his voice became monotone, his breathing slowed, his body went limp. Soon the repeated word was just a murmur, as Mistress Lola spoke to him:

and deep
and obedient
So docile
So compliant
Ready to serve and obey
Aren't you?"

"Yes, Mistress, nice," Dani answered.

"Good Girl!" Mistress Lola said. "Now, take off those awful male clothes and let me see what you're wearing underneath..."

Dani stripped to his cami and panties. "Oh, no, that will never do for what I have in mind. Go to your bedroom and come back with a strapless bra and your smallest pair of panties." Smiling in anticipation of her plan, Mistress Lola waited patiently for his return. He came back with a flesh-tone strapless bra around his chest and a pair of flesh-colored panties that barely contained his tumescent sissy-cock.

"Much better," the mistress complimented him. She reached into the bag she had brought and produced a set of falsies...a massive set. She held them out to him. "You know what these are, Dani?"

Dani nodded. "Those are Mistress' magical mammaries," he answered.

"Yes," she continued, stepping forward to slip them into the cups of his bra. "They are size 38E and they will automatically adhere to your skin, transmitting every touch, every caress to your body." Having secured them, she stepped back again. "There--the perfect set of tits for a bimbo, right, Dani?

Dani replied, "Yes, Mistress..."

"Then, Blow Bimbo Bubbles...."

That was it, the phrase that triggered a different personality in Dani...that of a bimbo male lesbian named Bubbles--air-headed, eager to please sexually. "Oh, wow, Mistress, I love these big knockers of mine!" Bubbles exclaimed, holding them up for examination.

"I know you do, Bubbles sweetie...but now I've brought some other things to help you look even sexier!" Mistress Lola explained. "Here, put on this padded will give you an hourglass figure and improve the look of your sissy ass!"

Bubbles pulled on the garment and felt it remake her body. "Like your tits, you will experience this just as if it were a part of your natural figure," Mistress Lola explained. "Now, let's find some suitable clothes for you...we're going shopping!"

Twenty minutes later, clad in a tight-fitting, low-cut dress, Bubbles wiggled and minced her way to Mistress Lola's car on her six-inch heels. "Strap in, honey...let the seatbelt define those massive boobs even more," the mistress advised as she put the car in gear and pulled into traffic.

They drove to a section of town Bubbles didn't know. "I learned about this store on line before I left England," Mistress Lola explained. "They specialize in helping bimbos like you become as sexy as they can be."

"Oh, Mistress, that will be, like, so much fun," Bubbles said, giggling.

They walked into "Be a Bimbo," and were surrounded by clothes obviously intended to make the most of a sexy figure. Mistress Lola walked up to one of the sales associates and said, "I am Mistress Lola Venus. I believe you were told I would be coming in...and this is my male lesbian bimbo, Bubbles."

The salesgirl smiled. "Male lesbian? We get many cross-dressers here, but that is the first time I have heard that description."

"Yes, Bubbles is male underneath, but she is truly a lesbian...she only makes love as a woman would with another woman," the mistress explained. "I'm looking for something really special for her--something to show off all her attributes, if you know what I mean...."

"Oh, yes, Ms. Lola, I have exactly what you're looking for, right over here." She led them to an area full of clinging bodysuits of all kinds and colors. "This rack has the ones that will fit her best, I think."

Mistress Lola started going through the outfits. "No, not black, that's for dominants; no, green would be terrible for her coloring; blue is all right, but I'm looking for something really spectacular." She stopped as she spotted precisely the proper look. "Bubbles, come here." She handed the garment to her bimbo. "Go in the fitting room and put this on."

"Gee, Mistress, it seems like it would be sort of, you know, revealing," Bubbles began.

"Of course it will, sweetie. Isn't that what a bimbo like you always wants to be?" Mistress asked.

"Oh, yes," Bubbles responded, as she took the outfit into the fitting room.

Moments later, she returned, in a nearly flesh-colored strapless body suit that clung to her every curve, showing off her new big butt and especially her 38E boobs with their prominent nipples. Even her sissy-cock was nicely outlined at the crotch.

"Oh, Mistress, this is just, like, the most beautiful thing I've ever owned!" Bubbles gasped. "I feel so sexy, so horny, so aroused..."

"I know, dear, I, Squirt, Sissy, Squirt..."

And a wet stain began to appear at Bubbles' crotch....


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Friday, November 10, 2017

Peter and Penny

A lovely story about a man who came out to his wife as a cross-dresser....

Peter's letter to Lou

"Writing this with the intention that you should read it is difficult as I know it is bound to cause you hurt and could damage the love that we have for each other and the relationship which I value above all others.

"Nevertheless, the time has come when I can no longer hold back... I still find it easier to write my thoughts instead of talking straight, so what is this all about? The simple answer is that I like dressing up. This is not a recent discovery.

"You've asked me a number of times what my fantasies are and I've been too scared to answer.

"Well for as long as I can remember I've dreamed of dressing up and making up to look and be accepted as feminine. In school plays I loved wearing tights, putting on make-up and wearing anything that was different to boring male dress."

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Thursday, November 9, 2017

November Dressing 2: More Polka-Dots

I seem to pair this blouse and skirt a lot...

The navy polka-dot blouse is from Kmart's Basic Editions line in June 2012; the high-waist stretch skirt is from Kmart's Bongo line, also in June 2012; the shoes are Fioni "In the Mix" navy felt peep-toe pumps from Payless in February 2011. Other accessories are a polka-dot bow, silver jewelry, and natural hose.

And two more pretty portraits:

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