Friday, January 5, 2018

Erotic Hypnotism and BDSM

Another look at one of our favorite kinks:

BDSM-driven erotic hypnosis even has its own book, published, by Alex Tsander who sees erotic hypnosis as an intriguing way to dive deeper into the world of hypnosis.

When asked why erotic hypnosis has such an appeal to the BDSM community in an article for Bizarre Tsander highlighted the similarities between hypnosis and the sensual release of the dom/sub dynamic. “It’s all tied up in issues of power and relinquishing control,” he stated. Hypnosis itself can also be a fetish, as Tsander notes that “I’ve met people who get a buzz from being hypnotized or the idea of it—usually vanilla individuals with a submissive side they haven’t come to terms with”.

In short erotic hypnosis can provide couples with a safe and wonderfully unique way of exploring their own proclivities towards dominance and submission.

...being tied up can be considered a bit too intimidating for some people (and in a long distance relationship it may be practically impossible). Safety always comes first and someone who is hypnotized should never be bound… at least not physically.

Using nothing but the voice a hypno-dominant may narrate binding their partner, making them feel as if they’re being tied up and guiding them into place with their voice.

Being descriptive is important here: the submissive should be able to imagine how the restraints feel against their skin; how tight they are and how they react to every little motion.

An oldie but a goodie. Having put their sub into a trance a hypo-dom may be free to make them do whatever they wish.

This could be something playful (like a hypnosis-induced erotic dance) or something more intimate (like a voyeuristic masturbation session).

The tone of voice is very important for this suggestion. The hypno-dom will need to be commanding enough to act as a dominant should but soothing enough to keep the trance state in place. It may take practice, but the experience is well worth it.


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