Wednesday, May 29, 2019

Master's (Or Mistress's) Voice

Here's a little description of how one couple utilizes erotic hypnotism. The quoted section is very much how my sessions with Mistress Lola go:

Master watches me as He speaks, and looks for a state where I seem to be almost asleep. For me, the feeling was much like being in subspace. I am very relaxed, totally conscious and aware of my body and what is happening around me. His voice is clearer to me in that state, but I am often unable to respond without enormous effort. At this point, Master will describe what He wishes to achieve. It may be that we will be trying a role play. He will describe the character He wants me to play, the attitudes, and the scenario. We might have gone over the scenario and characters before so that I am familiar with the scene. This makes it easier for me to understand what He wants, and I can concentrate on feeling, rather than learning.

Wednesday, May 22, 2019

May Dressing 2: Sheathed in Stripes

Not sure why, but this dress always looks good...

The striped sheath is by Haani, bought at Ross in April 2016; the shoes are Predictions Comfort Plus "Janine" yellow pumps from Payless in May 2015. Other accessories are a yellow bow, black-and-white jewelry, and natural hose.

One just "OK" portrait:

Next dressing sometime in June.

Tuesday, May 21, 2019

May Dressing 1: Being Green

In contradiction to Kermit, I find it easy being green....

The green linen blouse and green crepe leaf print skirt are both from Kmart's Jaclyn Smith line, bought at the same time in September 2012; the shoes are Christian Siriano "Shanghai" neutral peep-toe pumps from Payless in April 2011. Other accessories are a white bow, green scarf, black-and-white jewelry, and natural hose. I tried the skirt with pettihose, but it didn't hang properly--and I should probably add a tightly cinched belt next time.

I'm not entirely happy with the portraits; I didn't have the camera's settings just right.

Another outfit tomorrow.

Saturday, May 18, 2019


Metacalphalate-X is the creation of Timothy Reisling Betticut.

Wednesday, May 15, 2019

Sexuality and Crossdressing

Hannah McKnight has some interesting thoughts on the subject:

I would be remiss if I didn’t acknowledge that there are some who dressing up is nothing more than fetish and is completely sexual. Simply put, dressing turns them on, they wear lingerie (or whatever) when they want to…ah, well, you know. They dress up, they have sex, or masturbate and…that’s that. Until the next time. Of course, there is nothing inherently wrong with this. You do you, I guess. But like anything sexual between two people, both have to be on board.

It is not unheard of that a t-girl wanting to wear lingerie in intimate moments. Lingerie might help someone feel beautiful no matter what they are doing, during sex or simply under your clothes when you go grocery shopping. Someone wearing a lacy nightie to bed is something they are doing for themselves, and possibly for their partner. However, t-girls need to be aware that surprising their partner by doing something similar can be… well, it probably won’t go as planned, especially the first time.

...Don’t tell your wife you are a crossdresser on Friday and then greet her in the bedroom on Saturday wearing a corset and stockings. (Unless she asks, of course.) Communication between a couple is important and it’s never more evident than when it comes to intimacy, fantasies, and what happens in bed. Or the living room, if you are so inclined.

This will be last of the postings on crossdressing philosophy, unless I come across something interesting, of course.

Tuesday, May 14, 2019

Saturday, May 11, 2019

Tumblr change

My tumblr page is currently off-line. I got a notice this morning that one of the copyright holders to works I had used there had filed a complaint...and rather than go through several years worth of postings to fidn al the "offending" images, I deleted the entire account.

Over the next few weeks, I will reinstate it, but not use any material from the problematic source.

Deirdre Not David

Wednesday, May 8, 2019

The Pink Fog

Hannah McKnight talks about the dangers of getting too deep into our girly side:

She came across the term ‘pink fog’ which I had never heard before. It refers to someone being so…blissful of this side of them that they don’t think things through as much as they should. Like a fog, this can cloud your perspective and your thinking. It could mean that we are so in love with a pair of red stilettos that instead of doing something responsible like making a car payment we suddenly own a new pair of heels instead. Or five pairs of heels. And a new wig. And a dress.

This fog can lead to, well, let’s call them lapses of judgment. We might post a picture online, we might leave the house. If we have partners that have requested or set boundaries we may cross them. The fog can be similar to a form of drunkenness. We might make decisions that we normally would not make when sober or not in the fog. The fog, like alcohol, does not justify our decisions. We still made them.

Monday, May 6, 2019

Wednesday, May 1, 2019

Femulating in NYC

The lovely Stana spent a day in the Big Apple a few years back and left us this report:

A lot of people saw me en femme today, probably thousands of people. And everybody who I personally encountered, treated me like a lady. I did notice more than a few people (mostly guys) giving me a second look, but they probably were just taken aback my Amazonian appearance!

My confidence en femme has surprised myself. I hailed cabs en femme (and usually caught the first one to pass by) and I spoke to people throughout the day and did not think twice about it. For example, when we were in the museum, I asked various museum personnel various questions. In the past, I would have asked one of the two women I was sightseeing with to do my bidding.