Wednesday, October 28, 2020

Be What You Want

Once again, Hannah McKnight has some wise words:

I remember the first time I heard the word ‘crossdresser’. I was in grade school, probably 6th grade, when a friend mentioned an episode of a talk show that featured men who liked to wear girl clothes.

I was stunned. At times I felt like I was the only boy in the world who longed to wear beautiful dresses, but to learn that there were so many of us that there was a word for someone like me was astonishing.

In a lot of ways, this was reassuring. This was comforting. It was a relief to know that there were others like me. I didn’t think there was anything wrong with me, but knowing that there were others who wore what I wore and that maybe, just maybe it was more normal than I had ever dared to dream.

Over my life I had tipped my toe into this beautiful world. And I did it in small steps. I wore panties, loved them, and then a bra. Then stockings. More lingerie. Heels. Soon real clothes. Then makeup, a wig, and then stepping out of the house.

Each step, each new piece of a wardrobe, each new level (if you will) was another step into a new gender for me.

By allowing myself to wear what I wanted, to do what felt right, gave me the perspective that transitioning wasn’t for me. I love being a girl, I love being a boy, I love wearing “girl clothes” in boy mode. I love who I am. I love being in-between. I love all of it.

We tend to overthink and over-analyze who we are and what this means and why we are who we are. It’s normal to do so. But thinking about who we are only gets one so far. We need to explore this side of us. Buy those heels, try on that corset, get a wig fitting. Discover yourself.

Friday, October 23, 2020

Mistress Lola Speaks

More thoughts from my hypno-mistress:

1. In a previous set of answers, you mentioned "a rather delightfully silly boy I turned into a crossdresser." I know I want to know more about this! 

Ah yes, dear Nick. It began when I was just starting out as a hypnodomme. I met a rather sweet girl called emilythecurious on a chatroom, who wanted to experience being a bimbo through hypnosis. Well, sort of...perhaps not a bimbo in the same way Bubbles is, but definitely she wanted to stop being smart and to be more like the big breasted models she'd seen online. So I obliged, and helped her experience having bigger breasts, and made her throw her books away, amongst other things. She was in a lot of ways my test subject when it came to trances and sessions, and I'd try out lots of different kinks with her (essentially anything that was trending in the hypno community). She was also the first subject I ever spoke to on the phone, and she soon came to beg for more phone conversations. We went on and off for a while, as is the nature of chatroom hypnosis, but she'd always come crawling back in the end.

So imagine my surprise when she confessed that she was not a girl called Emily, but a boy named Nick! I have to say, she did a rather convincing femme voice (although perhaps I was too naive to notice). Her confession came about when she realised that she wasn't roleplaying, she was actually being hypnotised, and wasn't sure she liked how girly she was becoming. Apparently she'd only given herself a girl name so people would be more likely to hypnotise her. Well, as you can imagine, I was disappointed by the lies. But then I decided, if she's going to masquerade as a girl, then she's going to go all the way. And from there I helped her realise how much she enjoyed being feminine, how rather than enjoying big breasted women (though I did make it so she became submissive to anyone with a big chest), she wanted to be one herself. As time went on, I made her buy dresses and girly magazines and all sorts of nice, feminine things to enjoy. She soon realised there was no point resisting, and her will wore away to the point that just a suggestion from me would become her biggest command. Together we helped her become the kind of girl she loved, a bland, submissive, uninteresting girl. No personality, no wit, just a gorgeous body to be admired. All boobs, no brain. 

I last left Nick (now Nicola) with an addiction to the E! Network (Kardashians, Real Housewives etc), where she would spend hours on the couch, watching those brain-numbing shows, letting her mind rot away as my silly little zombie. She came to crave being called a was actually rather sweet. That was the last I heard of her, which must have been a good three years or so now. Perhaps if you're lucky I'll be able to find some sessions or emails I can share with you.

2. You have said you like to feminize your male subjects, in part because feminine people are more appealing to you. What do you do with your genetically female subjects?  

Much the same sort of things, really. Whether it's a genetic girl or a girl in training, I cover the same sort of ground (maids, bimbos, robots etc) unless I am asked to provide something specific. As the majority of my hypnotic escapades are carried out online through text, it doesn't make a whole lot of difference what the gender of the subject is, as long as they are willing to be referred to with female names and pronouns for my own enjoyment. My imagination is usually enough to do the rest.

Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Developing Your Style

As usual, Hannah McKnight has some wise words about finding your femme style.
We discover our style by trying a lot of different clothes. Which is super fun (and expensive). When I moved from simply underdressing to actual real clothes, I was drawn more to formal wear and little black dresses. To me, there was nothing more beautiful than a gorgeous gown and nothing more classic than a little black dress. The thought of getting dressed up, and I mean REALLY dressed up was so exciting for me. A beautiful dress, amazing heels, perfect accessories, flawless makeup… the only thing missing was a place to go.

Once I lost weight and became more comfortable going out, my wardrobe started to reflect my confidence. Since I also stopped caring about “passing” and accepted that as a six foot tall t-girl I was never going to blend in, I decided to wear whatever I wanted. These days I love bright dresses, I love eye-catching patterns, I love floral print dresses, I love clothes that show off the parts of me that I love, such as my legs.

For me, it takes more than the clothes. I have to feel comfortable in them, I have to feel confident in them. Without comfort and confidence the outfit, no matter how cute, just doesn’t work.

Hannah’s style might be a reaction or response to days and days and days of boring boy clothes. When I did go into an office everyday it was always the same shirts and the same three pairs of dress pants. The options as to what Hannah could wear to work, or anywhere, is endless.

Friday, October 16, 2020

Hypno-Session: Celebrating Our 50th Meeting

That's right! On Wednesday, Mistress Lola put me in trance for the fiftieth time in just over three years. To celebrate we explored several of my hypno-induced personas all at once. The trance-script is here.

Tuesday, October 13, 2020

From the Pages of LolaVenus Magazine

Another article from the fictional periodical:

Getting Your Hypno-Sissy Ready for Halloween

Halloween has been called “the cross-dressers’ holiday,” and it has been traditionally an excuse for the closeted CD to get into femme mode and flaunt it in public. But your sissy isn’t closeted, is he? So what’s the appropriate look for a sissy with a Mistress to get into on All Hallows Eve?

Our advice—take him outside his comfort zone. Some examples:

If his usual approach to feminine attire is to look like a well-turned-out matron, put him in little girl clothes instead.

Or, if he normally dresses like a prim office girl, get him into full bimbo mode.

Is your sissy your maid, all done up in satin and petticoats, but still with proper decorum? Perhaps Playboy bunny is the appropriate trick-or-treat look for him.

  Maybe your sissy is a dedicated under-dresser—wearing bra and panties under his otherwise male attire? Send him out in his undies alone to ask for candy from the neighbors.

And, of course, if your sissy loves elegant formal gowns, get him into schoolgirl gear as a “costume”.

You know your sissy best—pick the style that will most embarrass him and make him plead to stay indoors…and then insist he go out anyway.

Happy Halloween! --Pretty Sissy Dani

Friday, October 9, 2020

Mistress Lola Speaks

More thoughts from my hypno-mistress:

1. We’re approaching our 50th trance session together. Is this an unusual situation for you?

Somewhat unusual. I admit when I first emailed you what seems like so long ago, I didn't expect we would ever be doing regular trance sessions at all, much less do 50 of them. It's rare to keep in touch with a subject for so long - outside of the few special subjects I've mentioned (and a rather delightfully silly boy I turned into a crossdresser, which I really must tell you about sometime), it's more likely to do maybe two or three internet sessions with someone before they disappear forever. However, Dani is no ordinary subject, and I am glad that I have been able to provide her with a release for her craving for hypnosis for so long.

  2. For a while, we were scheduling a trance session once a week. How often do you usually have such a session?  

It really depends on the subject and how I meet them. At one point I was doing daily trance sessions with people, though that was when I was much younger and had a lot more free time on my hands. Although when I say 'trance session', that's not to say a full hypnotic adventure every day - it might just be a quick trigger and suggestion depending on how much time I had spare. However, I find a weekly or fortnightly trance rate to be much easier - it allows me chance to recharge between sessions and come up with interesting new ideas for next time. Not only that, it's all I can really afford to spare myself in terms of time these days. Busy busy busy!

Wednesday, October 7, 2020

Dating as a Cross-Dresser

Hemrna Mikier has some advice for cross-dressers seeking a date:

Crossdressing men who are more confident about themselves and have the assurance of being accepted by their potential partners are more popular on the cross-dressing dating sites.

[C}ross-dressing men who are more confident and assured about their place in the society....have more charisma due to their self-confidence and hence are more popular and sought-after in crossdressing dating sites.

Merely dressing like a female is not enough to pass you off as a successful and popular cross-dressing man. There are many finer details to being a woman which you will need to pay complete attention to for being popular on crossdressing dating platforms. Physical features like body hair need to be groomed properly to give cross-dressing men a more realistic feminine look and feel. Other grooming features like carefully done nails and manicure can help crossdressing men achieve the look they want and make them more popular on crossdressing dating sites.

Being a successful and sought-after crossdresser has a lot to do with your attitude. It is important to pull off and do justice to the gender persona

Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Hypno-Session: Maid Academy

Last Friday, I had a brief but successful hypnosis session with Mistress Lola (brief because we both were under time constraints, successful because--well,they're always successful). The Mistress took me on a mental trip to her school for sissy maids...

The trance-script is here.