Monday, December 25, 2023

Happy Christmas to All!

[My annual Christmas greeting, first posted in 2007.]

...and to all a Good Night!" Clement Clark Moore wrote. (And, yes, he did write "Happy Christmas," not "Merry....")

This is my chance to talk about how I feel about Christmas. I'm with Charles Dickens, who put these words into the mouth of Scrooge's nephew, Fred: "I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round -- apart from the veneration due to its sacred name and origin, if anything belonging to it can be apart from that -- as a good time: a kind, forgiving, charitable, pleasant time: the only time I know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really were fellow-passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on other journeys. And therefore, uncle, though it has never put a scrap of gold or silver in my pocket, I believe that it has done me good, and will do me good; and I say, God bless it!"

There is practically no version of A Christmas Carol that I cannot stand to watch at least once, although I have a favorite--the 1984 TV version starring George C. Scott, which I consider closest to both the spirit and the letter of Dickens' work. I will confess a soft spot for The Muppet Christmas Carol, in part because my kids love it so (despite their being college graduates now).

So I will close this post with the immortal words of Tiny Tim:

God bless us, everyone!

Wednesday, December 20, 2023

Annie and Mommy--All at Sea

A few days ago, sissy annie and her Mommy, Ms. Holly, got back from a cruise. Annie sent me the following report:

Mommy and I had a fun time on our cruise from Miami. She made some new friends and so did I. When we got on the ship we put our bags in our room and walked around the decks. We were on the top deck when we heard the horn blow. It made me feel so happy and gave me lots of pleasure like how I feel when I eat ice cream. There were maybe 6 people around us then. I went up to each person and smiled and did a pretty curtsy and said: "The horn makes me feel happy, sissy and girly." One lady came up to me and told me what a pretty sissy I am. I thanked her and gave her my personal card. Mommy talked to her for a while.

The horn blew many times each day! My feeling of pleasure and happiness was even stronger each time. I loved telling everyone how happy, sissy and girly I am! I also sang my "i'm a little sissy" song (and my sissy nursery songs) many times. I loved telling everyone we met that I am mommy's little sissy darling. That makes mommy so very happy

I took my dolly, MaryEllen, everywhere I went. There was a fun playroom with lots of toys, activities and books and many things to do. Mommy took me back to our cabin after dinners and let me color and draw pictures for a while. She went out to meet her girlfriends to see shows and listen to music and other things.

On Sunday mommy had 4 ladies meet her in a pretty meeting room. They were all women she met on the cruise who wanted to know more about sissies. Mommy had me be there with her. She had me curtsy and introduced myself to everyone.I told them about how happy I am to be a sissy, about my dollies, my pretty dresses and all the things a little girl my age loves to do.

I also did a little fashion show for the ladies. Mommy. told them all about my sissification and feminization. They had lots of questions for me. One asked me if I like being a sissy. I told her being a sissy is the best! I also recited my "I'm a pansy, petal, fairy, flower, sissy girl" poem.

Sissy annie's reaction to the ship's horn is the result of a post-hypnotic trigger I gave her in our last chat session before her trip.

Ms. Holly later sent me an addendum about the ladies with whom she had the private meeting:

Two of the 4 ladies are very interested in sissification and feminization of their husbands. The other two were just fascinated by sissy annie having never encountered sissies before. I don't have contact information but I gave them my personal contact info. I'm not looking for clients but I told them that I would be happy to help in any way I can.

I gave them an overview of feminization and sissification. There were questions about hormones and also how to go about transitioning their males. Lots of questions about Annie. They were surprised that she is a legal child. Annie loved sharing all about her dolls, princess room, girlfriends and more. No surprise there. Annie is a little girl who adores that attention.

Sunday, December 17, 2023

Hypno-Session: Two Mistresses

On Wednesday, I had my final meeting with Goddess Lola for this year. I think the title of this post suffices to describe the contents. The trance-script is here.

Sunday, December 10, 2023

Sissy Nature and Nurture: My Thoughts

I promised Mistress Amber I would post my reaction to her essay, so here it is:

I find most of what Mistress Amber wrote to be true, for me and the other sissies I have encountered. Some of it is a bit harsh, such as her emphasis on physical chastisement--paddlings, even whippings. In my experience, only sissies who are truly submissive masochists need or desire that kind of discipline. Most sissies respond well to simply being denied sexual release. Often the best punishment is to push their feminization beyond their usual boundaries--put a mature male into toddler attire to emphasize his dependence on the dominant woman, for instance.

Do I agree that all males can be feminized? To an extent--I think any man who experiences wearing nylon, silk, or satin undies will soon prefer them to his cotton briefs or boxers. A bra is an erotic thing to most men--and being allowd (or made) to wear one will inspire arousal in them. And, of course, all men love the look of legs in hose and heels...even their own legs.

Would society be better off if all men were made to be sissies? It would certainly be gentler and kinder than it is now. And probably prettier, as well. Does every man have the capacity to be as adorable as sissy annie? Or as sexy as I imagine Mistress Amber's sissy pussy must be? In all honesty, no--but a few curves and a little makeup will create a feminine image for even the most masculine of males.

Saturday, December 9, 2023

The Nature and Nurture of Sissies

Mistress Amber Morgan is a dominant woman who believes in the feminization of men (in fact, she believes all men can be successfully “sissified” and should be). She is a friend of Ms. Holly, sissy annie’s Mommy; she first got in touch with me by commenting on this blog. This essay was requested by me and has, to an extent, been augmented with comments from our e-mail exchange.

The male brain is quite naturally feminine but also very weak. How a sissy dresses should always be up to his female owner. No matter how feminine they look, males should never be permitted to wear pants. I certainly agree 100 percent that sissies should never be allowed to wear pants. The male brain is weak and a sissy's behavior only shows why society would be better off with women wearing the pants and running things. All males are sissies deep down and the best thing we can do for them is put them into permanent chastity and frills. Of course, being back in pants is horrifying to any sissy and she will soon beg to be put back into sissy outfits.

After being in dresses, sissies hate wearing pants again or the threat of acting like a boy. I have helped guide mothers using petticoating for many years and find it interesting that even the most resistant brats learn to love their dresses and fear being put back into pants. Males are naturally very feminine. They are taught to fear their femininity. Frilly dresses bring out this natural feminine personality. An extended period of time wearing dresses ensures that a male fully embraces his femininity. That triggers their brain to reject all things masculine, especially wearing pants.

Sissies and bratty boys under strict petticoating are the only ones who curtsy now. Learning to curtsy and sit properly in your frilly dresses is a must. I love the sissy annie’s mommy takes care of her and ensures she always acts as a proper sissy should. While I understand that she may not like being spanked, it is required. Unfortunately she was born male and no matter how good of a sissy she becomes her male brain will still mess up. Getting punished is a reward that her mommy gives her so that she learn from her male mistakes. Every “whack" whether it is from mommy's hand or paddle is a reminder that mommy loves her sissy. She needs to thank her with a proper curtsy after, for taking her precious time to correct sissy annie’s behavior.

Petticoating is more than putting sissies or brats into dresses. It is a different mindset for both mommy and boy.

I have worked with mothers for many years helping them understand the benefits of petticoating. Many of these mothers once had nasty alpha brats who hated their pretty dresses at first. This was because bratty boys are taught to fear their femininity and tease other boys that are weak and feminine. Once they are put into frilly frocks, petticoats, and rumba panties their inner princess takes over and they have to face the reality that they are sweet and docile prissy princesses. This can be overwhelming at first. It is important that mommy has a plan and is ready to use the right level of love and discipline to liberate the brat from all the unwanted toxic masculinity and fully embrace their true feminine self. Even the best trained sissies still have an inferior male brain and while they might not mean to there are always nasty toxic masculinity thoughts going on in their male brain.

It is such a delight to see a man changed into the most feminine of prissy boys, and at the total servitude of a strong woman. Female power and authority is the natural state of things.

In the situation of the adult male sissy who is feminized and not age-regressed, there are many roles that are suitable. First and foremost the sissy can fill the role of housewife--doing all the domestic chores, such as keeping a neat and tidy home and doing all the cooking, cleaning and shopping. That also entails fulfilling every need of the Mistress including her sexual desires. The sissy is completely feminized and dressed to the tastes of his superior.

If the sissy must work outside the home it must be in a more traditional feminine profession such as teacher, nurse, etc. Personally I favor the sissy being trained as a live-in sissy maid in proper uniform.

I have a full-time sissy who is en femme 24/7 and permanently chastised. Her name is "sissy pussy"--a reminder that sissies are "pussy". She wears classic maid dresses and runs errands in her maid dress and heels. She is also my toilet slave. It is better than a bidet!I probably put her in a trance a few times a week. She is given reminder spankings (paddle, whip, crop, etc) every other day. She has been taught to bathe and dress me. I am her Goddess and she worships the ground I walk on.

Sissy pussy was somewhat submissive and very interested in becoming a femme sissy when I met him. The first thing I did was to dress him up as an adorable sissy. He loved that and begged for more. That was just to give him a taste and leave him wanting for more. The next step was to have him masturbate to sexy girls photos three times a day. After two or three weeks of that, I locked him in chastity. Sexual control is total control. He cried and cried for release--just like an infantile baby. After a month of that, I sent him to a friend's baby nursery for sissies to be completely infantilized—diapers, baby food, baby dresses and so much more. After six months of that he was returned to me. Then it was time for him to begin the process of growing up--toddler, little girl, pre-teen, teenager and finally to an adult sissy.. Sissy maid training followed. I also began using him sexually through my strap-on. Being fucked as a girl transformed him into "pussy".

The hypnosis only more deeply reinforced my control over him and made him focus on pleasing me as my possession.

If you wish to contact Mistress Amber directly, she can be reached at

The captioned photos are of sissy princess annie and were approved by her Mommy, Ms. Holly.

Wednesday, December 6, 2023

My Prissy Sissy

Sissy annie and her Mommy, Ms. Holly, prepared this poster after I advised annie on exactly what I meant when I called her "prissy".

Saturday, December 2, 2023

Sissy Annie's Christmas List

On Thursday afternoon, I had a meeting in chat with sissy annie. On the urging of  her Mommy, 
 Ms. Holly, I attempted to hypnotize her. Based on her responses and on Ms. Holly's later report, it seems to have been quite successful.


Hello Pretty sissy dani. This is sissy annie. I'm sitting here waiting for you as mommy told me to do. I hope you like the pics she took of me. She says that I am a prissy sissy now.


Hi annie! I love the pictures. The big hair bow is delicious! Are you still in the same outfit?


Yes MS Dani! Thank you

I am so happy to be here with you.


I am happy to be with you too. Tell me does being dressed this way make you feel weaker and deeper?


Yes. very very much. When mommy puts a dress on me I feel that way


Is weaker and deeper something you like to feel?


yes. very very much. I feel so pretty and sissy and

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


Are you hypnotized now? Or should we make you weaker and deeper?


I am mommy's little sissy darling.. How may I help you Miss?


You can come with me on a trip annie. We are going to a very special store I know, one that sells all sorts of things that little sissy princesses love


Yes Ms Dani. Thank you

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


Take my hand and I lead you through the door. The store is filled with sissy clothes and dollies and other toys. We are here so you can choose a few items to put in a letter to Santa to tell him what you want for Christmas. Won't that be fun?


very much Ms Dani!!!!

I am holding your hand


Then let's start over here with the panties. I will show you two different ones. Tell me which one you like better.
Number one:


Or number two


Which do you want more?


I love both but I like #1 more

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


Let's make a note of that and move on. Over here they have lovely petticoats just right for wearing under your precious lolita dresses.
Do you like number one?

Or number two?


number 1 Ms Dani!


I thought you would. Now would you like to look at shoes? Or jewelry?


shoes please


Very well. This store has some very pretty very sissy styles. Here's number one:

And here's number two:


Which one is better?


WOW! #2 they are more sissy!!

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


You like all the sparkles eh?


yes Ms Dani


Good Girl! We'll add those to the list. Now about jewelry. Earrings? Pink hearts seem right for my little sissy cousin. Do you want number one?

Or number two?



#2 they are the sissiest!


Yes I'm sure they will look delightful dangling from your pretty little ears! Oh! Here are some necklaces...and they all tell everyone exactly what you are!
Is number one better?

Or do you like number two better?



WOW! #1. I want everyone to know I am a sissy!

I am mommy's little sissy darling.

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


Of course you are sweetie and everyone should know it! I think our list is almost done. But how about a new wig? Something that will go well with your lolita dresses?
Number one?

Or number two?



#2 I love the pretty curls! that is so perfect for a sissy like me


Yes so lovely! Now when you wake up I want you to sit down and write a nice letter to Santa and tell him all about the pretty things you've chosen....and if you're a good sissy maybe he'll bring some of them (or something like them) to put under your tree on Christmas morning.
Be sure to show the letter to Mommy and to me as well!


Well our shopping trip is done but we still have lots of time for other things.
I want you to look around you and see how funny life can be....and when you hear or see Sissy is silly you will begin to giggle at how funny everything is. You will always do this when you hear or see Sissy is silly.
Do you understand?


yes Ms Dani


Good Girl! Sissy is silly




What's so funny annie? Or is it that Sissy is silly?


it is sissy is silly Ms Dani


Can you stop giggling?


no I am still giggling

everything is funny

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


Very well. From now on when you hear or see Sissy is silent you will stop giggling. Do you understand?


yes Ms Dani


Are you still giggling?


No Ms Dani


Good Girl!

I just realized--I should show you how I look this afternoon.

Do you like what I'm wearing?


😍yes very pretty Ms Dani


You understand that, even though I am a sissy too, because I am older and because your Mommy has put me in charge you must do as I say right?


Yes Ms Dani. i must do as you say.


Good Girl! And not only today but whenever we are together


Yes Ms Dani. I am to obey you


Good Girl! I am your older sissy cousin. I love you and will take care of you just as Mommy and your babysitters do.


I love you Ms Dani and I must please you

I am glad you are my cousin.


I think it's time to end this now annie


yes Ms Dani. Thank you


It's all over at an end


hello Ms Dani

I am here


Hi annie! Did you enjoy our shopping trip?


yes Ms Dani. I remember that I will write a letter to Santa

I am mommy's little sissy darling.


And show it to Mommy and me


yes thank you for the reminder


Good Girl!


May I say something Ms Dani?


Of course sweetie


Thank you. I want you to be happy with me that I am pleasing you


I am very happy with you. Now I have to take care of some things here


good bye and thank you


Good bye...tell Mommy I will be in touch later.