That’s a paraphrase and parody of a line from Shakespeare’s Twelfth Night, and I believe it is entirely true. In this series of essays, I will be exploring the idea that some males are sissies (almost) from birth, others develop into sissies on their own, and still others are made into sissies.
Some Achieve Sissyhood
A boy who does not meet society’s expectations of masculine behavior—who is not athletic and prefers quieter endeavors—will find it difficult to attract girls as romantic partners. This is not to say that he seeks male romantic partners; he Is usually firmly heterosexual. He wants a romantic relationship with a female—he simply cannot get one.
He usually has plenty of feminine friends who appreciate his gentler approach to things. They frequently share his interests as well—interests such as the performing arts (acting, music, dance) and the creative arts (writing, drawing, painting). He will come to admire (and desire) those girls who participate in his activities, while knowing they will never be more than friendly. He wants a closer relationship with these female companions and searches for a way to build one.
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