Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Finding Your Domme

Lady Alexa offers advice to the sissies looking for a life-style wife/mistress:

Just because a lady has dominant tendencies it doesn’t mean that she is always thinking only about humiliating and feminising men. The news is that she is not. We live most of our life doing everything that everyone else does. We’re normal.

We don’t go around wearing high heels and tight leather outfits. Not unless we want to play at a club or at home. Mostly we wear clothes that any other woman would wear and we shop at the same women’s clothes shops.

So forget the fantasies of my novels and the images on Pinterest. They are fetish fantasies that we might also enjoy from time to time. But mostly we have other more mundane things to do, like working, eating, visiting family and so on.

Be careful what you wish for in an FLR. I’m not talking about doing what she says during a role play. I’m talking about the D/S relationship being full time.

Decision making will become hers and hers alone. You will be having to do things you don’t want to. You will have to give in to her authority.

Chastity and wearing sexy female clothing is what many submissive men crave. But. In order to get this, if this is indeed what she wants, you have to hand over full control of everything.

Yes, this does include your clothing and how you dress. She may not want you in that pretty pink short maid’s dress with lots of frills. She probably won’t. Tough, she chooses and she may just want you in female trousers, or shorts. Or nothing. Whatever, it’s not your decision.

Your body becomes hers. She owns you and what you do. Think about this for a moment. Those genitals hanging from between your legs may be attached physically, but they won’t belong to you anymore. Think about it.

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